標題 : 用心於現在
生活中最重要的是要學會「調心」,對什麼事情都要往好的方面看,要能善解、包
容。
我常說:「杯子不要看缺角,要看圓的部分。」但是曾有慈青問:「我把杯子打破
了,怎麼辦啊?」還是可以善解的。打破了,就空了、沒了,我們可以從頭再開
始;不要因為杯子碎了,讓心靈也碎了,因為物質是有「成住壞空」的。
每件東西都有「成」的時候,還有讓我們使用時「住」的形象;但是,物質的東西總
是會「壞」,壞了就會「空」。所以有東西的時候,要用愛心去疼愛它;有了毛
病,要用善解的心去包容它;萬一破掉了,要心懷感恩,感恩它曾經讓我們使用,這
樣就好。
不要在事情無法挽回時,只會說後悔,不要常有這種過了之後的煩惱。
有些人很愛鑽牛角尖,有的一直在想過去的事,心裡無法放下;有的卻一直追求未
來,這樣都會損失現在啊!什麼事情都要好好的把握住現在,不要讓它出錯。
比如講話時,萬一講錯了,就要趕快說「對不起」,然後就讓它過去;如果一直放在
心裡不能消化,這樣就不對。事情還未到時,也不要妄想未來,又迷失於現在。
過去的是雜念,不要經常放在心裡;未來的是妄想,也不要想那麼多,最重要的是此
時此刻。
人在這裡,心就要在這裡。這時候說話,心要用在說話;這時候在聽話,心就得用心
聽話;這時候做事,心就用在做事,這樣就不會做錯、不會說錯、也不會聽錯。人在
日常生活中,總離不開說、聽、做;假如事事都用心的話,人生就不會錯。
Wednesday, January 11, 2006
Use Your Heart...To Learn, Listen, ....
I come across a meaning article which is very true to reflect our life experience in learning and attitude towards things. Enclose to share the article with you:
Thursday, January 05, 2006
Learn, learn and continuous learning
This phrase is very true and meaningful. What do you think?
You can use this phrase and learn to observe your surrounding people attitude. It is useful to your life. The most worry part in one life is too proud to learn. One's prejudice has set a block to learn in different aspects. This will only make life vulnerable to learn any new idea. In addition, having this attitude will cause one's lose chances and opportunities in life. Therefore, I believe be a smart people but hamble self is very essential to our life.
You can use this phrase and learn to observe your surrounding people attitude. It is useful to your life. The most worry part in one life is too proud to learn. One's prejudice has set a block to learn in different aspects. This will only make life vulnerable to learn any new idea. In addition, having this attitude will cause one's lose chances and opportunities in life. Therefore, I believe be a smart people but hamble self is very essential to our life.
Wednesday, January 04, 2006
New Year Hope
New Year with new hope in the stock market. Many investors or speculators hope to get some first day rally in 2006 and bought some shares in the last day trading in 2005. They are dissappointed with Bursa performance for the first day in 2006. The broad market drop and KLCI droped more than 6 points. Everyone is heart break with cutting losses in the market.
KLCI is the only market with negative return in 2005 in the region. Therefore, most people still believe the market can close above 900 points in the last day trading. Most are dissappointed because the market close barely below 900 points (899.70).
Our market has been dissappointing our investors twice within a week. Market participants are still hoping the market to perform better since there is no rally in 2005. In year 2006, participants hope the market can reach 1000 points and they can gain back what they has loss in the past. This is reasonable for them to think this way because if they have no faith, they will not stay in the market anymore.
We can always hope for better. In reality, they are more factors to be considered. Therefore, hope is still the main source of energy to support our belief and behaviour. I do hope our local investors can invest wisely and not to mention beating the market performance. Happy trading and investing for a new year. Cheers~~
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Happy New Year 2006
5..4..3..2..1.... The firecrackers in the sky....Happy New Year 2006.
Everyone has a new hope in a new year. Sometimes, i would think that time pass easily especially after i have graduated from the university. The excitement for new year has been faded since my career life started. Year 2000, 2001 ....2005, and now 2006 is just a short memory.... but life has been changed from many aspects....fresh graduate....new marriage life...new carrer...future dad..has been changing without any paused.
Everyone has to planned ahead and new mission or vision in 2006. I would question that how many percentages of our vision/plan has been achieved in year 2005. I think no many will achieve their plans in full. However, life with no hope or plan will be miserable. As usual, life must go with hope and we plan and we try our best to achieve it.
I wish you have a properous new year 2006 and you can achieve your hope or wish in a new year. We still have another 365 days to complete what we had not achieved. Let's make the effort to make this world better and wonderful. Thank you
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